Wednesday, 3 July 2013

Happy New Year......



Its my birthday in exactly three days. I am excited. I am always excited. Your birthday is the only day in the whole year in the lives of the people that love you, that is all about YOU. So every year this time, I get up and I look at where I am and re-evaluate. The past three years have seen me spend this time of the year in very dark emotional places. Lonely in a room full of people. Miserable and caught up in my baggage. Dealing. This year is different.




This year is new.

So I'm looking around and re-evaluating. Deciding what to keep and what to throw away. I like one thing about my life. The further I go and the more I grow, the more things and people I don't need fall off. So I've seen friendships that I once cherished wither and die. Right now there is a lot of empty emotional space around me. Like rooms in a new house and I love it! Because it means I have more room to fill with beautiful new experiences.

Farewell to my old loves, my so-called friends, my unnecessary acquaintances, my bad habits, my sad memories and painful goodbyes...farewell to tears too...

Everything is brand new...

Hello to new jobs, new songs, new feelings, new goals, new people, places and things, and a world of amazing tomorrows...

I saw myself turn around between 24 and now...so four days shy of 26 its been two years of shaking and breaking and bleeding and dying to self. I love the me that I am now. This me is beautiful, funny, learning to be confident, laughing, wearing color, NOT hiding anymore, trying new things, challenging myself to be and to do things I haven't before...its amazing...caterpillar to butterfly things...

I will never crawl again...

I am grateful for my family, they stick by me no matter what. The toughest times I had to go through were made easier because my sisters were there to make me laugh. And that is everything. I am grateful for my friends. My true friends. Leah, Mufa, Emelda, Poppins, the whole lot of you and the others I haven't named. I always have somewhere to go. Someone to talk to. Because I have all of you and that is something I never want to lose.

Shining...new...hope...

This man. Wow...after sooooooooooooooooooooooooo long...I met someone in this world who is actually EXACTLY what I want. Sometimes you just know. And I know. You are my 2013 Lu. The whole year is just you. And you fit so perfectly because you are unexpected and brilliant and amazing and unpredictable and exciting and just what I need...all I need...to get by. I am grateful for our journey already...as "special" as it has been. You have taught me a lot about myself and patience and about what it means to BE love...and I love you. I am proud of you. And no matter what I am happy to be your girl. Right now. Till whenever. Hopefully forever. (Yes I said it. He's that great.)

Everything is brand new...

So as I clock another one, I am full of hope and excitement and energy and positivity. I am ready for tomorrow and the next day and I am embracing all and anything that is MEANT for me. I have family, friendship, love and music and Jesus is definitely walking with me...

Emotional outpouring of feeling...it’s been a while...but its gonna be my birthday in a minute, this month I can get away with anything...

#TitaniumSolid #Kilimanjaro

Over 'N Out...
*winks*

Miss Mahogany

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